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Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Rajioon

First off I would like to say JAzaka'Allah to all the wonderful duas and kind words by everyone in emails and on my blog. Even people who's blogs I never visit had the most uplifting duas for me and I truly appreciate it. Thank you all once again and may Allah shower his mercy upon you all.

Its been almost a week now since dad passed away. Allah truly is the best of planners. Just last night I was talking to a good friend of mine on the phone who was trying to help me get my head straight. The night before he passed away, dad was feeling so much better, we were sort of comfortable leaving him on his own and the nurses said the same thing. My friend's mother had been in the hospital for the last couple of days and yesterday was the first night my friend didnt stay over. About an hour or so ago, I received a text from her saying her mom has passed away. It absolutely breaks my heart to think what she must be going through as I know the feeling very well and as I have come to know, so do quite a few people who emailed or left comments.

A week ago I had people coming up to me and saying they didnt know what to say. Today I find myself in the exact same position even though I went through the same thing less than a week ago. I guess there are no words one can say to comfort someone at a time like this. Again, duas would be requested for W's mom and insha'Allah if you guys could pray for her forgiveness and admittance into paradise, it would be appreciated. Jazakumullah Khair.

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